Will Your Mum be Here Next Year?
“ … the new year seems a world away”, my friend remarked as we settled into the most comfortable seats in this all singing and dancing café recently opened.
It was our first time, and the excitement was slightly tempered when on arrival, it was half empty. but the aromatic smell of coffee and the cool music and warmth was relaxing.
“ it’s lovely here., my friend said. I agreed.
We sat in silence enjoying the moment… Out of the blue, I heard.
“.. will your mum be here next year? Asked my friend.
In shock I replied, “ Yes, I hope so.
She asked this question because in previous conversation, I had said, I was not planning to do anything special or big for my mum this year but hope to do a big celebration next year. That was her idea last year, not knowing that life for her, would take a different twist last year. A real lifechanging impact. It still echoed in her voice. Sadness? Regret? Not sure.
Should I be thinking differently, I wondered. More time to think and reflect, I convinced myself.
“ Am I join you? A friendly voice broke my chain of thoughts.
Hours later the question my friend asked me at the café still lingers in my mind; “Will your mother be with you next year?”
Why should my heart skip a beat when this question is asked? Not sure really…
It reminded me of the unpredictability of life and the importance of cherishing the moments when they come. Like a flash, they come and are gone.
It’s easy to take things for granted – to assume that our mothers will always be there for us. However, the recent pandemic has shown us that everything in life, including our loved ones, can be uncertain. Many distractions can create vulnerability. For many of us, our mothers have played a central role in our lives. They have been the carers, nurturers, and the glue that keeps our families together. They have been the ones we turn to in times of joy, trouble, the ones who lend us money, informal and first career advisors, and the ones who make our birthdays, weddings, and significant occasions special.
On the other hand, there are many reading this, whose “mum’s roles” were in actual fact played by grandmothers, aunts, nieces, and female friends. Such significant ones are mothers in all but name.
As we navigate through life, it’s important to cherish these moments and never take them for granted. We never know when the last time we will see our loved ones will be. Let us take this Mother’s Day to do more, creating a mosaic of memories for ourselves with those who mean much to us and show appreciation for all that our mothers have done for us.
Painful memories will for many be a barrier, but whatever memories you want to create on March 10, 2024, cherish the moment. Do something new, think outside the box.
So, on March 10th, Mother’s Day, how will you be showing it and saying it?
If you are still wondering, take a fresh look at another way of saying the same thing.
If your experience of your mother differs but your significant influencer was your grandmother, a great aunt, a niece, a sister, or a larger-than-life female neighbour, the black water experience will be a treat to cherish.
The black water experience offers you and the one who means the most to you, the perfect opportunity to create a mosaic of delightful memories, a lifetime keepsake.
For those who have lost their mothers, grandmothers and other significant others, we share in your grief and hope that the memories you have will bring you comfort.
So, to all the mothers out there in the first place, grandmothers, aunties, know that you are appreciated, cherished, and loved. Your impact in our lives is immeasurable, and we are grateful for all that you do. Happy Mother’s Day
Will your mum be around next year?
Other things can wait, but cherishing the moment with mum can’t.
Join us for the Black Water Experience on Mother’s Day
Article by
Salome Ahenkora
ManagingDirector
ChigwellTours
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